Saturday, January 30, 2010

Noelle

 
  

Noelle is my friend and companion in reading. Actually, I think she likes it that I am sitting down and she can sit next to me. She rarely meows, hides when strangers are in the house, does not like my grandchildren (they are too noisy), she does not get in to mischief, enjoys the occasional treat of a bug or lizard that crawls in to our house, has been known to catch a mouse and not make a mess, she dislikes hail and thunder, enjoys the birds that get to close to the outside of the windows, fusses at me when there is an empty spot in her bowl, waits at my dad's door in the morning for him to waken, recognizes my husbands truck on Friday nights when he pulls in the drive way after being gone all week, she dislikes fish and prefers chicken and beef, she is a little on the fluffy side. I have owned, or rather they have owned me, several cats. I am  thankful that on that cold mid December day in 2003 I went to the Animal Shelter, and it was love at first sight.

Blissful Blogging!
Annette 

"One Question Friday"

"One Question Friday" is from the blog "All in a Day's Thought." Wendy is the author of this blog and each Friday she asks a question.

January 29, 2010~~~"What makes you tick?"
This question really means what motivates me?
The beginning of a new day motivates me. To see the sun at the beginning of each new day is a motivator. The expectancy of a fresh new day and the possibilities that can come. I am ready to face the day: look over my list of to do things, drink that first cup of coffee, check my email, read my daily devotionals, and have prayer time.
The love I have for my family motivates me to want to care and provide for them. I do not earn a paycheck any longer outside of the home, but I am needed to care for my dad. I am motivated to prepare my dad's meals and take him to Target for his walk. I am motivated to do the laundry, and clean the house, because I love my family.
I am motivated by the Bible verses that I read, they spur me onwards to be diligent in my words and my actions. I am motivated by Scripture to remain faithful, persevering, and loving. 

January 22, 2010~~~"Silence is golden, or say what you need to say?"
There is a time to speak and a time to remain silent. I believe silence is a response. Speech can cause friction, error, mis-judgment, hurt feelings, anger. When a person is long winded in their speech, the person listening has a tendency to stop listening--their mind wanders. I believe when something needs to be said, say it, get to the point, and move on.When my sons were young I tried hard to abide by that last sentence, express myself in as few words as possible getting to the point. Weighing our words before they are said is important, after thinking about what you want to say, it might be better to not say it all.
My answer to the above question is both: it depends on the situation, the emotional feelings you have at the time, who it is you wish to respond to, and what it is you have to say.
Weigh your words, they may not need to be said at all.

"A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver." Proverbs 25:11 NIV

"A man finds joy in giving an apt reply-
and how good is a timely word!" Proverbs 15:23 NIV


"Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms,hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him." Colossians 3:16-17 NIV


Blissful Blogging!
Annette




Faith 'n' Fiction

Amy's question for this Saturday is "why read?"
1. I love words, phrases, rhymes, verbs, prose, characters, settings, plots.
2. I love to hold a book and turn its page in expectancy of the continuing story.
3. I love to picture the story I'm reading in my mind.
4. I love the undisturbed quietness of no sound while I am reading.
5. I love it that I can read a book on my own---I guess this means I am a loner?
6. I love to gain insight in to other peoples life issues.
7. I love to learn.
8. I love for my mind to be busy.
9. I love it that I can travel to another place and another time through a story.
10. I love illustrations, photographs, styles of type-font, and book designs.

Blissful Blogging!
Annette

Friday, January 29, 2010

Update on Church Fire

I just found out that our Church that burned on January 19, 2010 has been ruled arson. Please read the following link to learn more.
http://www.tdtnews.com/story/2010/1/29/63834

Please continue to pray for the members of our Church as we absorb this new and disturbing information.

Thank you.
Annette

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Thankful Thursday!

I am thankful for:
1. A warm and dry home---it is cold and raining outside.
2. My home is paid for.
3. Indoor plumbing.
4. A newly purchased LG front load washing machine.
5. That I live in a country where I can own as many copies of the Bible as I want, and display them freely in my home, and I can read my Bible in a public place!

Blissful Blogging!
Annette 

Monday, January 25, 2010

Bible Reading Challenge-Update

Are you reading your Bible?

The following chapters of Genesis have been read over the past week.
Genesis 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, and 30
John 10, 11

"Keep your life so constantly in touch with God that His surprising power can break through at any point. Live in a constant state of expectancy, and leave room for God to come in as He decides."
Oswald Chambers

Friday, January 22, 2010

Recent Pictures of our Church

Twenty members of the National Response Team of the Bureau of Alcohol, and Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives are at the remains of the Church investigating the cause of the fire today. A large crane is now there and being used to lift away the roof that fell and other debris.
I made a trip this morning to the Temple Public Library, it is across the street from the Church, I stopped and took these photo's.
 
 

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Thankful Thursday!


1. I am thankful that there was only one minor injury in the fire at our Church Tuesday morning. A fireman had minor injuries.
2. I am thankful for a loving, caring, encouraging, Holy Spirit filled Church body of believer's.
3. I am thankful for my family and friends that have reached out to me in love.
4. I am thankful for Jesus who is never surprised, always in control, and always has a better plan.
5. That I can approach the throne of grace at all times.

Blissful Blogging!
Annette

Review-"Thicker than Blood"



TitleTrakk.com Blog Tours Presents:

Thicker than Blood
by C.J. Darlington
Published by Tyndale House


Winner of the
2008 Christian Writers Guild Operation First Novel Contest!


Christy Williams finally has her life on track. She’s putting her past behind her and working hard to build a career as an antiquarian book buyer. But things begin to unravel when a stolen Hemingway first edition is found in her possession, framing her for a crime she didn’t commit. With no one to turn to, she yearns for her estranged younger sister, May, whom she abandoned after their parents’ untimely deaths. Soon, Christy’s fleeing from her shattered dreams, her ex-boyfriend, and God. Could May’s Triple Cross Ranch be the safe haven she’s searching for? Will the sisters realize that each possesses what the other desperately needs before it’s too late?




With careful attention to detail, emotion, and scene-setting, C.J. Darlington scores with her debut effort. Here is a special writer you won’t want to miss.
--Jerry B. Jenkins, New York Times best selling author

If you love a good read filled with adventure and ultimately redemption, I encourage you to brew the tea, settle into your favorite chair and pick up the page turner that is C.J. Darlington’s imaginative new novel of a modern day sisterhood that triumphs over separation and the raw challenges of life to find the real endurance of both family ties and God’s amazing grace.
--Rebecca St. James, Grammy award winning Christian singer and bestselling author

With Thicker than Blood, C.J. Darlington proves she's a novelist for the long-haul, a strong new voice in Christian fiction. This book speaks to the heart, from the heart, about the heart. Readers will not soon forget it.
--Sibella Giorello, Christy award-winning author of The Rivers Run Dry & The Clouds Roll Away

Watch the book trailer:




About the Author:
C. J. began writing the story that would become Thicker than Blood (her first novel) when she was a fifteen-year-old homeschool student. She has been in the antiquarian bookselling business for over a decade, scouting for stores similar to the one described in the novel before cofounding her own online bookstore. Thicker than Blood was the winner of the 2008 Christian Writers Guild Operation First Novel.

C. J. co-founded the Christian entertainment Web site TitleTrakk.com with her sister, Tracy, and has been actively promoting Christian fiction through book reviews and author interviews. She makes her home in Pennsylvania with her family and their menagerie of dogs and cats. Visit her website www.cjdarlington.com for more info.

QUICK LINKS:

C. J. Darlington
Tyndale Fiction  Copyright 2009, 376 total pages
"Thicker than Blood" is an Award Winner! Jerry B. Jenkins Christian Writers Guild
This book was provided for review by TitleTrakk  for the purpose of reading/reviewing.

I must say I am proud of C. J. this is an outstanding first novel! I loved it!
I've followed along with C. J. on her blog about this book, silently cheering her on!

The two sisters Christy and May Williams are different in their personalities, beliefs, dreams, mannerisms, lifestyle choices, and ways of response to times of crises. I welcomed their polar differences, it made for realism and a continued interest in the story. Even in a family of two siblings personality differences can be startlingly different.
Christy and May live in different environments, Christy lives in the city and May on a ranch in a rural setting.
I was captivated with Christy's job in the city, working in an antiquarian book store; and by May's job of working with cattle and horses on a ranch.
There are a variety of other characters in the book, each adding weight to the story of Christy and May.
Love is the theme of the novel, the love between the two sisters even though they've been apart many years has stayed strong and like a magnet they are drawn to each other.
Forgiveness is another theme in the novel, forgiveness heals and promotes a new beginning.
The author gives a strong glimpse into the world of addiction, it is written with gut wrenching reality. I was swept away by the addiction's strong grip on the character, and by the ploy that addiction masks that is covering anger, sadness, and fears.
This is a brilliant first novel, I am excited about the future novels that C. J. will write!

Blissful Reading!
Annette

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Church

This is a picture of the Church building in 1940, this would have been one year after it was built, replacing the previous burned building. Now, this building has burned.

Fire

I was awakened this morning by a startling phone call, a friend called to tell me our Church was on fire.
We do not know what caused the fire that was called in to the fire department around five this morning. The original First Baptist Church Temple, Tx burned to the ground in 1938, it had been located one block over from where it is now. My dad in 1938 was fifteen years old and he was delivering his early morning paper route when he saw the Church burn. Daddy told me today that now both he and I are watching the second Church building burn. During the fire today all of the sanctuary and offices have been destroyed. It was heartbreaking to stand in front of the Church doors and watch water pour out, carrying with it hymnals and Bibles. Both of our sons were baptized in this Church, Jeff and I renewed our wedding vows in this Church, we have many memories. Many of us that are members of the Church stood around supporting one another this morning giving hugs and words of love. We are the Church, the building is where we met, yet we have a strong attachment to this building. Pray for us. We will be meeting tonight at seven for a prayer meeting.

 
 
All pictures taken by Annette @A Well-Watered Garden

"Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior." Habakkuk 3:17-18

Monday, January 18, 2010

Faith 'n' Fiction Saturday




Faith 'n' Fiction is a weekly Saturday post by My Friend Amy
Amy's questions look at how faith and fiction intersect.

"Finding good books for book club can be really difficult. Generally, you want a book that raises questions so that you have something to discuss. Christian fiction often provides discussion questions (even in romance novels!) but I'm not always sure the books themselves have that much to discuss. Today I thought it would be fun if we compiled a list of books that would make good book club books for Christian book clubs. Since this is faith and FICTION Saturday, I'm asking you to keep your answers to works of fiction. The books, however, do not need to be published by a Christian publishing house, but they should have some elements that would make them appealing to Christian book groups to discuss."

I am the book club group coordinator at my Church. The name of our book club group is "Soul Talk."
The book that we will be discussing in late February is "The Blood of Lambs" by Kalam Saleem--see the following link to read about the book--
http://www.amazon.com/Blood-Lambs-Former-Terrorists-Redemption/dp/1416577807
I have not read this book yet, but will soon--it comes highly recommended by several in our book group!

The books that I've read over the past year that I feel would make good books to discuss are:
"Demon" and "Havah" by Tosca Lee
"Lost Mission" by Athol Dickson
"The Shape of Mercy" by Susan Meissner
"Fireflies in December" by Jennifer Valent---this was our last book club choice and we had a long and great book discussion on this novel!

Blissful Reading!
Annette

Bible Reading Challenge-Update

Good Monday Morning to you!

Are you reading your Bible?

The following chapters of Scripture have been read by me over the past week:
Genesis 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17
Matthew 7, 8, 9 
John 8, 9 for BSF

"How many of us are expecting Jesus Christ to quench our thirst when we should be satisfying Him! We should be pouring out our lives, investing our total beings, not drawing on Him to satisfy us."
Oswald Chambers 

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Thankful Thursday #60


Thankful Thursday is a post that you express the five things you are thankful for.

I am thankful for:
1. That my dad is still living, he is a blessing.
2. Pajamas
3. Root Beer
4. My own office/library.
5. A gentle husband.

Blissful Blogging!
Annette

"The Blue Umbrella"

"The Blue Umbrella" by Mike Mason 
Published by David C. Cook in 2009
425 pages of reading
To view the book trailer click on the following link:
http://www.mikemasonbooks.com/trailer.html
This book was provided for me for the purpose of review by the David C. Cook B&B Media Group, Inc. 



"The Blue Umbrella" by Mike Mason is the first in a series for nine to twelve year olds.

Ten year old Zac Spark's mother was killed by lightening, and shortly afterwards he goes to live with two great aunts in the town of Five Corners. Zac's life with these two Auntie's is chilling. Zac meets Sky Porter the owner of the general store across the street from the Auntie's house. Sky is approachable and friendly, but can Zac trust him? Sky's blue umbrella is a mystery and the focal point of the story.

The people that live in the town of Five Corners are a morphed version of a cross between Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, and Cruella De vil. Each of the characters leap off of the pages in their extremity of facial expressions, demeanor, clothing--they are almost cartoonish.
The auntie's Esmeralda and Pris would fit well as guards at Auschwitz---they are evil to the maximum.
The plot and storyline is complicated, and required me to take notes to be able to keep up with all of the variety of exasperations, psyche behind the characters, and complicated settings.
To me this is a deep storyline---not a storyline that middle school age young adult readers would understand.
I also felt that some of the scenes were disturbing and they troubled me. Of course I am sensitive in nature, some young adults maybe more thick skinned than I am.
I did feel that this book was brilliantly crafted in creativity. The mind of the author is near on par with C. S. Lewis and other writers of classic fantasy novels.
The story does wrap up well and for this I was grateful, I had a sigh of relief.
I would recommend this book to an adult to read. I would be timid about referring this book to a person younger that high school age.

Blissful Reading!
Annette

One Question Friday

Wendy posts questions every Friday at her blog All in a Day's Thought.
The question for Friday January 1 was "what?"
"What?" That is a huge open ended question. Maybe I'll answer it as "what now?"
Right now it is 6:42 A.M. and I just poured my self a cup of hot fresh coffee, I added 1 package of Splenda and a little Pumpkin Pie Spice International Coffee creamer. I have checked my email, checked the newest updates on blogger reader, I have made a to do list for the day. The sun is not risen yet. At 5:30 A.M. I awakened and tried to fall back to sleep but could not, I always wonder if I'm prevented from falling back to sleep because I need to pray for someone, or the Lord  has plans for me and I need to get out of bed and get busy.
I've been awakened in the middle of the night many times with an urgency to pray for someone. When my son David was deployed to Iraq this happened nearly nightly. I would scramble out of the bed covers and kneel beside my bed praying for David. A few times the urgency was greater, more serious, and I would lie prostrate beside my bed and pray, sometimes until the dawn.
I have learned to never ignore an urgent prompting to pray!
"What now?" I'm in prayer for Haiti, their anguish cries the Lord hears and His people are called to pray, and give.


The question for Friday January 8, "Introvert or Extrovert?"
Oh, I'm sure you are already aware of which I am. I am an introvert. I am an introvert to the point that I make people uncomfortable with my quietness. For those that know me, really know me, I can be chatty, affectionate, funny, expressive, and feminine in every aspect of my body language.
I am an introvert, a ponderer, a prayer warrior, a Scripture memorizer, a planner. I enjoy my own company with out interruption of television or radio. I am also a worrier----I think too much--- and so much continual surrendering and praying over this during the day.
Do extrovert people annoy me? Nah, I appreciate their personality from mine. I have a few close friends that are extroverts, I married an extrovert!

Blissful Blogging!
Annette

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Faith 'n' Fiction Saturday: What are Your New Year's Resolutions?


Faith 'n' Fiction is a question that is posted on Saturdays through My Friend Amy's Blog. I'm a little late this week Amy, forgive me.

"Today I thought it might be beneficial to talk about our New Year's resolutions. Do you have any New Year's resolutions? Do any of your resolutions pertain to your Spiritual disciplines or to your reading life?"

I am not a New Year's Resolution kind of gal. I am though a goal oriented gal. I have goals all during the year that I work on fulfilling. But, specifically the goals that I have this year that pertain to Spiritual discipline and reading life are as follows:

1. To stop trying to figure it all out, leave it to God.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV
The part about "not leaning on your own understanding"----don't try to figure it all out.
But believe in and trust in Jesus, that some how and in some way He is going to work it all out.

2. To read all of the Bible this year before January 1, 2011.

3. To journal about what is God trying to teach me through His Word.

4. To read more children's and young adult literature--not only for my blog A Garden of Books, but also to enrich my development and knowledge as a reader.

5. Daddy and I started a Nursing Home Ministry yesterday. I made a phone call to our church and there is no group at our Church doing this, it is being left up to the Sunday Bible Fellowship Class teachers to go and visit their people that live in Nursing Homes. Daddy and I know that often this ministry is overlooked, people are uncomfortable with visiting a patient in a Nursing Home, it is depressing and can smell bad, etc.
It is also overlooked because people get busy with their own lives, and visiting a Nursing Home gets pushed off till another day and then another. 
Yesterday daddy and I visited with three people. One of them passed away late last night, end stage Alzheimer's.
"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me."
Matthew 25:34-36 NIV

Blissful Blogging!
Annette

Question Of The Week #1

Question Of The Week is created by Becky at Operation Actually Read Bible.


"What are your goals (be they short term or long term) when it comes to reading the Bible?"

This is an excellent question!!!

Last year I read forty-four books from the Bible, five of the books I read twice. I have in the past read the Bible all the way through from Genesis through Revelation.
One of my goals in 2010 is to read the entire Bible before January 1 of 2011.
The second goal is to journal more about what God is telling me through my reading of His Word.
I already keep index cards beside me and take notes on Biblical characters, and other information I want to write down. I kept my cards from last year and I'm elaborating more on them.

Blissful Blogging!
Annette

Roundabout


Roundabout is a post of the noteworthy blog's that I've found from the 59 blog's that I follow.
All of the blog's that I follow are produced by hard working bloggers that give much time and dedication.
I visited all of the blog's this afternoon and found that many had made changes to their theme and arrangement of information.
Blogger's are talking about challenges that they are taking part in, and goals and or resolutions for 2010.
Some have made mention of the earthquake, destruction, and loss of life in Haiti. News footage is overwhelming, heartbreaking. Pray for these people and donate to the Red Cross.

All in a Day's Thought Wendy asks the best thought provoking questions on her blog. She is a great author/blogger. Her post dated January 13 "Playing Against the Doldrums" was meaningful for this time of the year!

Christian Woman Keeper Of The Home Doylene has created a homey blog with homespun advice, recipes, decorating tips.

Have you visited Daily Scroll? It is a site for the greatest posts from over 200 Christian blog's.

Squeetus by Shannon Hale is a blog that I just found through Becky from Becky's Book Reviews.
If you follow the following link you can read several posts from Shannon Hale on "How To Be A Reader."
http://blbooks.blogspot.com/2010/01/reasons-to-love-shannon-hale.html

C. J. Darlington's first novel was published this month--"Thicker Than Blood" ---the blog tour is next week over at TitleTrakk. And by the way I'm reading this book now and will be taking part in the tour!!!!!

Jennifer Valent wrote a great post on January 9 entitled, "Artistic License vs. Artistic Responsibility."

Tom Toya's Blog (Send Me - Isaiah 6:8) Great post on "Intimacy With The Holy Spirit" dated January 12.


Blissful Blogging!
Annette

Monday, January 11, 2010

"The Shape of Mercy"

"The Shape of Mercy" by Susan Meissner
WaterBrook Press and published in 2008, 307 pages
The author's sites:
www.susanmeissner.com
theshapeofmercy.blogspot.com
This book was bought by me for the purpose of reading/reviewing.

"The Shape of Mercy" is the 2009 Christian Book Award Winner, a 2009 RITA finalist for Best Inspirational Romance with Strong Romantic Elements, a 2009 winner in Women's Fiction from the American Christian Fiction Writers, and has made numerous top 10 lists.
I had read other blogger's reviews about this great novel and I was anxious to read it!




"The Shape of Mercy" is the story of 3 women. We are introduced to the first woman Lauren in the beginning of the story. Lauren is from a wealthy family and has the ability to have whatever money can buy. She is an introverted and quite person, preferring to read over involvement with a social life. She is intrigued by a job posting and desperately wants to provide some kind of income that she herself has earned. She is interviewed for the job by the stories second woman, Abigail. Abigail is a woman in her eighties that is a retired librarian. She is wanting someone to transcribe a journal of her ancestor Mercy Hayworth. Mercy Hayworth is the stories third woman. Mercy was a victim of the Salem witch trials in the late 17th century. Abigail hires Lauren to transcribe Mercy's journal. Lauren is drawn in to the journal that Mercy wrote, it makes her question her own life and belief's. Lauren and Abigail bond, each of them finding similar life paths.
The character Lauren believes that she is honest, yet cynicism is in her tone, anger, a chip on her shoulder, because she is from a wealthy family. She believes that she is expected to perform in the way and fashion her father has set for her as an only child. As an introvert Lauren studies people, ponders things. She has a will to labor and to me this is enriching considering she has come from a family of privilege. She tries to maintain a close relationship with her family even though she does not always enjoy being with them. She is fixated on the girl that she sees in the mirror, the rich girl. I found Lauren's character to be fascinating and multi-sided. She is certainly interesting, not passive even though she is reserved.
Abigail is a mystery person, private, reserved, cautious. This peaks my interest wondering what kind of life has this woman lived, what secrets is she hiding.
Mercy, we know from the beginning that her fate is not good. In her journal we see her intellect, creativeness, wise nature, and fear of the uprisings against the girls in her village. Mercy is a girl from a different time period, and from a place in history that is vexing and disturbing.
The author has a pendant to point out when characters lean forward, the turning of the head, the inhaling or exhaling of a breathe. Body language is expressed in the story and that is not usually pointed out, this gave the characters a more dimensional life. It also gave the reader points of pause that was apart of the rhythm of the story.
There is a steady rhythm in the story, things move along not to fast and not to slow, there is steady movement as if we too are on the journey with the characters.
The word usage, meaning the combining choice of nouns and verbs is poetically beautiful.
There are teaching lessons in the story, lessons that stand out beyond a time period.
I loved this book, it is memorable in that after I have read this book the characters are still with me, their stories still echo in my mind!

Blissful Reading!
Annette

Bible Reading Challenge-Update

Thank you for all the well wishes and prayers. My neck is better, still a little "ketch" but manageable.

I had been posting most days my progress in Bible reading, I am thinking it would be better to post once a week my progress. It will simply be titled Bible Reading Challenge-Update, hope to do this every Monday.

Are you reading your Bible?

Since January 3 I've read Genesis chapters 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
and Matthew chapters 2, 3, 4, 5, and 6--
John 7, 8

"What is it that releases greater amounts of God's power? Our prayers, of course! God sends His power in response to adequate praying. 
God, through His answers, accomplishes what He has wanted to do all along but has been hindered by our lack of prayer. And although He is sovereign and can and does do as He chooses without the help of believer's prayers, He has chosen to operate extensively in response to them."
"A Journey into Prayer" by Evelyn Christenson 

Friday, January 8, 2010

My Neck

I've had a problem most of the week with my neck. I have 3 degenerated discs with bone spurs, plus I have lower back problems as well. I've done something to cause muscle spasms in my neck.
I have the book "The Shape of Mercy" to post a review on, but sitting with my arms extended to type on my lap top is just too much.
I did manage to post a review of "Island of the Blue Dolphins" on my blog at A Garden of Books.
I also read the book "Facing Learning Disability in the Adult Years", I will when I can post a review over at my other blog Impressions in Ink.
I am nearly finished with the book "The Blue Umbrella" hope to have that also reviewed soon. 
I go back to the chiropractor this afternoon, I'm trying not to lift anything--taking it easy.

Blissful Reading!
Annette

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Review-"Unfaithful"


Review--"Unfaithful, Hope and Healing After Infidelity" by Gary and Mona Shriver
David C. Cook--The B&B Media Group.Inc.
You can find this book at the following link below.
http://www.davidccook.com/catalog/Detail.cfm?sn=106457&source=search
285 pages
You can see the authors website @ www.HopeAndHealing.us
This book was provided by David C. Cook for the purpose of review.

Gary and Mona Shriver share a chapter from their lives that most people would have shoved into an attic closet and then locked the door. Instead they wrote a book in the hopes that others would be brought to healing and be blessed by it.
Adultery, it is often portrayed in the media as a "wine and roses" kind of decision on the part of adults. Rarely do we see a deeper look into the individuals lives, and the consequences of the adultery on the children, rejected spouse, and extended family and friends. Also what is not examined is the future relationship of the couple that decided to commit adultery, and then stay together leaving their previous spouses. Eventually the spark and the high of the adulterous relationship wears off, and the "reality" settles in---bad breathe, annoying habits, debts, and child support. Future explaining on the part of the parent that left will be given maybe several times to distraught children, that now feel abandoned and betrayed. The reputation and integrity of the adulterer is tarnished, they may be forgiven by those left in the path of destruction, but the sin was committed and will be remembered by people.
On the other hand is it easier to forgive and reconcile with the spouse that committed adultery, or to divorce?
To forgive is a must for a Christian, un-forgiveness cannot be between us and our forgiving Lord.
To reconcile, better explained is a precarious journey. A journey with many, many steep mountains to climb, muddy lakes to cross, and roads that seem impassable. Oh, but for the grace of God can it be done.
Gary and Mona Shriver wrote a book that I pray will be a monumental blessing to those that have been wounded by adultery. It follows from the beginning of the announcement that the betrayal of adultery has happened, then follows through their treatment and counseling, through the gut wrenching and sobering settling of the horror of what has happened,  it follows them through the struggling to communicate and move forward, then through to future triggers that will transport the offended spouse back to "that time." 
The book is deeply personal and raw, yet it is not lurid, and I never felt uncomfortable with the unfolding story.

This book is a must for all of those people that have been through this, and for those going through it.
It helps, it soothes, it is a friend.
Thank you Gary and Mona for not keeping your story to yourself, but in sharing with others, because it is a blessing, and you in turn will be blessed!

Blissful Reading!
Annette

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Today's Bible Reading!

Are you reading your Bible?

The challenge for January 1 through February 6----challenge led by Becky at Operation Actually Read Bible
is to read Genesis and or Matthew.
Today I read Genesis chapter 1 and 2, and Matthew chapter 1.



 
"He has given me a new song to sing, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see what He has done and be amazed. They will put their trust in the LORD." Psalm 40:3

What is your "new song" for 2010?