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Book Review: Amish Values for Your Family by Suzanne Woods Fisher

"Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see." Amish Proverb

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Published August 1 2011 by Revell a Division of Baker Publishing Group
192 pages
Christian Non-Fiction/Amish/Wisdom/Family

The Amish culture exhibits strength in family unity and moral values. The Amish maybe an anomaly to many yet they are respected. Suzanne Woods Fisher has written a book on many of the family values that are "lived out" in the Amish. At the beginning of each chapter is a Amish proverb. The chapters subjects are on money, daily chores, typical life in an Amish family, growing children, children leaving home, school, and Amish marriages. The book demonstrates the commitment, faithfulness, humility and obedience that the Amish "live out" in their lives.

I felt this was an enjoyable read!
I do feel it speaks more to a young parent, rather than a parent of older children (such as myself). Yet, having said that I did enjoy the book and felt I understand the Amish a little better.
What resonated with me the most is that the Amish children have a security that many American homes do not have,  the divorce rate for the Amish is zero. "They believe that the marriage commitment is for life. They don't question it. They know they have to make it through hard times as well as good."
There were several quotes from the book, proverbs, that I have written down---they just were so poignant and sweet.
"People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care."
"Be life long or short, its completeness depends on what it was lived for."

I was asked to share in my review what value impacted me and how I could apply it to my life today and how it would benefit my family.
I will speak from experience about commitment in marriage. My husband and I married young, had children quickly, most of our early years we were as poor as "2 squirrels in winter." We have been through much in our marriage, yet God in His mercy and grace supplied our needs. The value that my husband and I applied to our marriage almost 29 years ago was "commitment," we've stayed the coarse, persevered, kept the faith. Our children and now grandchildren have the added blessing of having parents together---in thought, in goals and dreams, and in unity.

Thank you to Litfuse and Revell for my free review copy.

Additional Information From Suzanne Woods Fisher and Lifuse Publicity Group

Guest blog from Suzanne Woods Fisher for “Amish Values for Your Family” (Revell)

Five Things I’ve Learned from the Amish that Have Nothing to Do with being Amish and Have Everything to Do with being a Christian:

Being Amish is not a lifestyle. Life among the Amish has to do with faith. Faith can’t be squeezed to an hour or two on Sunday morning; it infuses their entire life like a teabag in hot water. What they do and how they do it is rooted in the spiritual question: What is pleasing to God?

Amish proverb: “Letting go of earthly possessions enables us to take hold of heavenly treasures.”

The Lesson: To pray about my day’s activities and offer them to God, first, for His purposes. And then trusting interruptions (seeing a friend in the grocery store, for example) or de-railings (those days when everything goes wrong!) to be God-managed.

Cherish your family. A family that works together, grows together. Amish families spend a lot of time together and try to keep their work close to home. Children are valued as gifts from God, wanted and enjoyed. They’re included in all of Amish life—from barn raisings to three-hour church services. An Amish bishop once said, "We don't prepare our children for the future, we prepare our children for eternity."

Amish proverb: “Tomorrow’s world will be shaped by what we teach our children today.”

The Lesson: Involving children in chores and activities may not be the most convenient or efficient way to accomplish a task, but the benefits are long lasting. Look for ways to get everybody involved—cook together, sweep out the garage together, set the table together. And have fun while you’re doing it!

Draw a land in the sand. The Amish want to be good stewards of God’s resources—time, money, material goods. They know that convenience comes with a cost. They don’t want to be dependent on outside sources (such as electricity or gas!). Convenience means loss of something valuable. For example, fast food means less nutrition. More stuff means more maintenance. They’re willing to say no.

Amish proverb: “Things that steal our time are usually the easiest to do.”

The Lesson: Technology has its limits. And technology isn’t all good. Evaluate purchases more thoughtfully. Think of where a purchase or an added expense will lead your family. More time together or less? More stress or less? Reframe your view of time and money and goods as God’s resources.

Watch Your Words. The Amish continually stress the importance of filtering their speech.

Amish proverb: “Words break no bones, but they can break hearts” and “Mincing your words makes it easier if you have to eat them later.”

The Lesson: Say less. Prayer more.

Nothing replaces face-to-face visits. Back in the day when telephones emerged on the scene, the Amish bishops made a deliberate decision to keep the telephone out of the house. They didn’t want to interrupt family life. But they drop everything for a face-to-face visit.

Amish proverb: “Use friendship as a drawing account, but don’t forget to make a deposit.”

The Lesson: Nurture relationships by investing face-to-face time in them. No technology can substitute for the real thing.

Honor the Sabbath. An Amish person would never think of working on a Sunday. But it’s more than that—they truly cherish their Sabbath. They spend time on Saturday to make Sunday a smooth and easy day.

Amish proverb: “Many things I have tried to grasp and have lost. That which I have placed in God’s hands I still have.”

The Lesson: Strive to make Sunday a different day than other days. A day of rest is important on so many levels—time to worship, time to reflect, time to re-energize. A re-charge your battery day.

Suzanne Woods Fisher is a bestselling author of Amish fiction and non-fiction and the host of a weekly radio program called Amish Wisdom. Her most recent book, Amish Values for Your Family released in August. The Waiting is a finalist for a 2011 Christy Award. Amish Peace: Simple and Amish Proverbs were both finalists for the ECPA Book of the Year (2010, 2011). Her interest in the Amish began with her grandfather, W.D. Benedict, who was raised Plain. Suzanne has a great admiration for the Plain people and believes they provide wonderful examples to the world. When Suzanne isn't writing or bragging to her friends about her first new grandbaby (!), she is raising puppies for Guide Dogs for the Blind. To Suzanne's way of thinking, you just can't take life too seriously when a puppy is tearing through your house with someone's underwear in its mouth. Keep up on Suzanne's latest news on Facebook, Twitter and on her blog!

Blissful Reading!
Annette

Comments

Suzanne said…
Hi Annette! Just popping by to thank you for being a part of the blog tour for Amish Values! I'm glad you brought out the point about family and a child's sense of security. So true! Warmly, Suzanne Woods Fisher